The time spent living in
a house on the day of the pandemic is increasing. Covid-19 is affecting the
normal life of everyone, young and old. The situation with corona infection is
getting worse day by day. Adults are able to cope as much but children are not
able to cope as much. In this pandemic, the anxiety of children and young
people have increased manifold. Children are spending time in uncertainty and
fear. Because, although adults can easily adapt to any change, it takes time
for children to understand. Therefore, parents need to be aware that the
long-term negative effects of corona do not interfere with the child's normal
development. At this time the children need to listen carefully to the various
needs, complaints, grievances, whims. Children need to spend more time now than
ever before.
Identifying the causes of
the child's psychological changes shows that-
1. Children go to school,
study, play at home, draw pictures, dance, sing, everything has a rhythmic
decline. Even spending time with a friend next door is off now. The school
holidays in Lockdown were a bit of a joy for the children at first, but now it
has turned into unrest.
2. Mental and physical
changes are more common in adolescent children. So, they are more likely to be
harmed. We have to pay special attention to them. Adults in the family need to
take care of their physical health as well as their mental health.
3. Some parents impose
additional restrictions on children in order to keep them under more control.
It is never right to treat children like that. Some people try to control the
children all the time. Giving advice all the time, enforcing rules and
regulations, using strict rules all the time makes children angry with their
parents. As a result, the self-confidence of many children decreases at this
time.
4. At this time, due to
the mistake of the parents, the children are becoming irritable and angry.
Anger is a normal process in childhood. But if it continues for a long time and
the mind is not calm, deep problems may arise later.
Children who have been
stuck in the house for a long time are away from work outside the house. Let's
find out the reasons why your darling children are getting angry a lot, getting
irritable and sometimes aggressive.
1. The main cause of
depression. When children do not get what they want, their behavior gradually
changes.
2. Genetics and other
biological factors play an important role behind anger and aggression. The
environment also plays a role in this, where he is growing up.
3. To solve the problem
of anger in children, parents must first understand the cause of their anger.
For this, the parents have to listen to the children patiently.
We can be done to solve
these issues-
1. To create a well
environment for children so that they do not panic when they hear the name
Coronavirus and lockdown.
2. As the child is in the
house all the time, make the child interested in religious studies, literature
and culture and creative work in addition to studies.
3. Give the child a
planned time to draw pictures, practice beautiful handwriting, hand craft,
photography, song, composition, etc. Take the help of children in making food.
Spend fun time playing various games with the children.
4. Get children used to
writing their diaries regularly to get rid of boredom.
5. Fill the gap of friendship
in the children of adolescence. Talk to them about your childhood and tell them
funny stories from your school life.
6. Explain to children at
all times that they should not be discouraged by any pandemic situation. Give
the child the correct knowledge of how to live in the situation environment.
7. Play football,
cricket, tennis etc. in a home environment with children.
8. Make sure that
children never feel lonely in this pandemic condition.
9. Give the child a
chance to express all his feelings. Never interrupt a child's talents and
feelings. Respect children's feelings.
Lastly, create an
environment of love, care and happiness around the children. They need to
understand that they are safe. And parents need to keep in mind that if you are
happy, your children will be happy too. It is our duty to keep the children
alive during this time of pandemic.
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